Tag: natal chart psychology
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Avoidant Love: Sun in the 12th = Identity keeps a private distance from affection.
Sun in the 12th house learns early how to disappear. The self grows in quiet spaces. In pauses. In shadows. Identity forms without applause. Without mirrors. Without being fully seen. There is often a feeling of standing just outside life. Close enough to watch. Too distant to touch. Love is sensed. Longed for. But rarely…
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Avoidant Love: Rahu in the 10th = Career first, closeness optional.
Rahu in the 10th house is always looking upward. Toward success. Toward recognition. Toward a life that leaves a mark. The soul is pulled toward achievement like gravity. Rest feels unfamiliar. Stillness feels unsafe. Love waits while the world is conquered. This is a placement that grows inside expectations. Heavy ones. The kind that say…
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Avoidant Love: Mercury in the 4th = Conversations avoided, emotions locked.
Mercury in the 4th house grows up learning that silence is safer than speech. The mind forms in rooms where feelings were heavy, complicated, or ignored. Words were not bridges. They were risks. So the voice learned to stay inside. Love, later on, feels like walking back into those rooms. This is a placement of…