Category: Selfishness Astrology
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Venus retrograde? Inner love, not outward demands
When Venus turns inward, retracing her steps through the zodiac, the world of love begins to feel unfamiliar’. What once brought joy may now feel muted. What once seemed beautiful might suddenly appear false. Venus Retrograde doesn’t take love away—it reveals where it’s been running on habit instead of truth. This retrograde phase is not…
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Jupiter expands — even ego, if left unchecked
Jupiter brings light. Not the harsh light of scrutiny, but the golden glow of promise—hope, learning, faith. Where it sits, something grows. But not all growth is graceful. Sometimes it spreads too far, too fast, without awareness of its reach. And what was meant to inspire can, quietly, overshadow. A strong Jupiter often walks with…
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A powerful Lagna is strength — not a solo show
The Ascendant, or Lagna, is the face we wear at the world’s first glance. It is instinct, presence, the unspoken statement of I am. More than identity—it’s orientation. It sets the stage for everything that follows. When it’s strong, we notice. These are people who take up space without apology. There’s gravity to them. A…
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Mercury’s sharp tongue can cut too deep
Mercury, ever-shifting, is the instrument through which thought becomes sound. It’s how we frame reality, how we connect. Yet beneath its brilliance lies a shadow rarely acknowledged—the ease with which it can turn isolating. To speak is to reach out, but when speech serves only the self, connection becomes performance. A Mercury in Virgo, meticulous…
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Self-love isn’t selfish — unless your chart forgets boundaries
Self-love is often spoken of in affirmations and mantras, a remedy for the fractured self. But beneath the surface, it can feel like a fragile, uncertain thing—less like empowerment and more like a negotiation’. It asks: How do I honor myself without closing the door on others? How do I protect what’s tender without building…
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When Rahu dominates, so does desire
Rahu is relentless, never at rest. It pulls us with insatiable hunger. This force is intense and impatient. When Rahu dominates, desire takes control, often selfishly. It doesn’t intend harm but forgets others. The focus narrows to one thing: what “I” want. This craving isn’t soft or slow. It drives nonstop, a constant push forward.…
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Saturn says: maturity isn’t me-first
Saturn’s lesson comes quietly but firmly. It doesn’t demand attention with noise or flash. Instead, it works through limits, responsibility, and time. Its message is clear: true growth requires putting others before yourself. Selfishness only delays the path Saturn urges us to follow. In astrology, Saturn represents the challenges that shape maturity. It shows where…
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Venus needs beauty, not entitlement
Venus seeks closeness. It wants connection, tenderness, and to feel special in someone’s eyes. But sometimes, that longing tightens. It becomes a quiet pressure. Not love, but a need to be loved. Not affection, but proof of value. And when that proof doesn’t come fast enough, Venus turns inward. It watches. It waits. It begins…
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Mars can fight for others — if it wants to
Mars bursts forth with raw energy, demanding immediate action. It fuels our drive, pushing us to move boldly forward. When Mars turns inward, it focuses solely on personal goals. This Mars can feel selfish—relentless, sharp, and unstoppable. It charges ahead, sometimes ignoring others in its path. This energy is driven by desire, competition, and the…
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A wounded Moon turns inward — not always selfish, just guarded
The Moon governs our deepest feelings and care. When wounded, it often turns inward. This withdrawal may seem selfish, but it’s more complex. It acts as a shield, protecting a fragile heart. What looks like coldness masks a need for safety. The wounded Moon carries old pain, making it cautious and distant. Emotions tighten under…